here are so many reasons.
#1. Life can be so extremely beautiful, if you search the right places and are open for new things. Music, art, people, everything.
#2. life can be so fucking awesome if you let yourself go and just have fun. Parties, hanging out with friends, going to dinner with that special someone, having a movie night with the girls.
#3. life can be so amazing if you dare to live it. you have so many years left, you haven’t even come halfway, your problems are petty compared to others, no matter how big and horrible they feel now.
#5. Problems are nothing else but opportunities. everytime you have a problem, the way you handle it shapes you as a person. do you just give up and never enjoy what could happen if you fix your problem? as a person, overcoming obstacles makes you stronger, and a better person.
#6. because you have friends. you have a family. people who are going to cry, and cry, and cry and miss you so much. people who will lie awake the whole night, thinking about how they could have helped. “why didnt i see it? how could i be so stupid! i could have helped her!” You matter to people, more than you think.
And don’t you dare think that you are weak. you are not weak. you are strong. because you are still here. all those times you almost gave up on life, all those times you broke down crying, everything that has been thrown at you and in your face, you have taken it. you have taken all of this horrible shit, and you have throwed it on the ground and kicked the shit out of it. sure, the problems have kicked your ass too, but YOU won the war. you’re still here, and that shows just how strong you are.