Who gives a fuck about what he wants when it hurts others? Why would you care for a person who hurts you that much?
Because he’s my friend. And he was there for me when I needed him. Before
He was, and now he has chanced. Shit happens, people changes, that’s how it works. …
Who gives a fuck about what he wants when it hurts others? Why would you care for a person who hurts you that much?
Because he’s my friend. And he was there for me when I needed him. Before
He was, and now he has chanced. Shit happens, people changes, that’s how it works. Friendships don’t last forever, and when a friendship does more harm than good, what do you do then?
I don’t want to live in a world where people can change that much that fast.
People change constantly, it’s human nature. In the process of 7 years, every single atom in your body will be replaced. Think about that. During 7 years, every little piece of you change. A omplete new person. That’s how things are, that’s how things always have been, and that’s how things will most likely stay. and there is nothing wrong about it. If someone wants to change, they are free to do what they want, but we don’t have to like it. We can try to change them back, we can try to live with this new person, or we can simply move on with our lives.
Why would one choose to change into a worse person that one was? I don’t understand this fucking human nature! I don’t understand humans. Everyday, it feels like I don’t belong here. Like I’m alien
Because humans are complex individuals, some like bunnies, some like corpses. Some people find cuteness attractive, some people find fighting and blood arousing, some people like bondage, som people thinks sex is an abomination. People are different, people change, everyone is unique, some people work hard to become a certain kind of person, others just go with the flow. some people create their own future, some people let their past or present create it’s own future. Why would someone choose to be mean? Because they like it? Because it’s the only thing they know how to do? Because they view it as the only option? Because they can’t see the damage it’s causing? Or maybe because they just don’t care?
I don’t understand. Why does it have to be so difficult?
Noone knows. And that’s the beautiful part.
How is that beautiful? It causes pain and ruins everything.
With all of the different sciences of sociology, socialsentropology, and so on and so on, no matter how much they try to figure out how humans works, we can NEVER actually KNOW for sure why each individual does what they do, or act like they are, because everyone has their own story, their own opinions, and their own goals. Yes, we come up with thousands of theories and explanations about how society, family, and traumas affects us, but everything affects people differently, depending on how they are and what they make of it. Yes, humans cause pain, but humans also causes miracles. We have Adolph Hitlers and We have Mahatma Ghandis, We have Joseph Stalin and we have Martin Luther King. The extreme differences and range of personalities that exists both now, before, and in the future, is impossible to comprehend.
I’m just tired of everything. I’m sorry. Can’t we just gather up all the nasty people and put them somewhere else? Antarctica?
No. There are two reasons why not.
#1. Every person has a different view on who is a bad person, and who is not. If we sit down and write “This is bad, and this is also bad, so everyone who is like that or does things like that, they shall be sent to antarctica”, that will make us the new Hitler. We will become extremy horrible people, with rules based on prejudice, and so we will be locked up inside Antarctica as well. #2. We NEED bad people. We NEED negativity. Have you never thought about that before? I mean, what is good when there is no bad? If there are no bad guys, who is the good guys? How extremely plain and boring would life be without some bad stuff happening from time to time? As a person in the west where i have a roof over my head, a comfortable bed to sleep in and more food than i can eat, my life is pretty fucking great. Have i been bullied? Yes. Have i had really low periods of my life where suicides has been considered? Yes, plenty. What did i do? I fought through it. I focused on the good parts, i fought the bad parts, and i came out of it pretty great, even though i got scars along the way. I fucking love my life, because whenever bad things happen, i either handle it, or stay clear. Bad things will happen, there will always be a bunch of obstacles in your path, so what do we say to those obstacles? “HA, i can get through you, you are nothing, suck my dick” and then you beat the shit out of that obstacle and move on with your life, with way more experience and much more strength. When bad stuff happens, we can either let it control us, or we can control it. We can get better or worse from it, it all depends on how we deal with it.
Please don’t ever kill yourself or anything. I don’t want to lose you.
I won’t, i’m done with that. And I don’t want to lose you either.
(Source: wizrrd, via gifpeanutbutter)
